Monday, March 2, 2020

March 3 2020 Mackies visit



Hope, Spark, Lacey & Court Visit to New Zealand!

We had more visitors the last week of February… Lacey & Court brought Spark & Hope to see us and we visited a lost more of New Zealand…


Flying in
We visited the Otorohanga Kiwi House and Native Bird Park…
Hope was chased...

Feeding the Birds...

Not a Bird! A Living Dinosaur!
And the Waitomo Caves (Glowworms)… (No pictures allowed inside...)
Yes, we were on a boat in a cave.

Glowworms...

The caves...


No pictures inside, but we made it!
Yes - That's an eel...




Hamilton Gardens…
Cute Statues!

Being a scarecrow is fun!




Sometimes we feel BIG...
And Sometimes Small... (That's Spark...)


Imagine the Garden you can have with these tools!
Cathedral Cove (Long Hike down to the beach!)
Goats along the route...
Cathedral Cove

Dancing on the Beach


Dreaming about...

A sailboat?
Should we cliff jump?

(there is music with the video if it works...)

Hiking back up...
Raglan (Bridal Veil Falls and the Black Sand Beach)
The Falls

The Black sand...
Lunch on the Wharf...

And Slides at Parks…




And Pizza Night!

Hobbiton...



Little Artist!

Anyone home?

Party Field...



Drinks at the Inn...

A wizard in the making?
What a day!

Mount Maunganui
water is so fun!

Rocks are too!

Lacey and Court snorkeling with the Big Ships...

Plenty of Parks and new Friends from Sri Lanka…
Hope's favorite activity

Look - no hands - like a roller coaster

New Friends...


And Duck Island Ice Cream...
Yes, I do like it!

So do I!

A Fun Day



















The Last Day...
Marine Discovery Center...
Clear Bottom Boats...


















Sand Castles

A Break














Frisbee on the Beach..

And more Swings!
What a Week!

We are very grateful for our children and grandchildren – That makes life great!

Elder Tune from Kiribati (pronounced Kit-ti-bus) came to a Stake Conference and shared about going often to a hotel but never getting breakfast – they asked him why – he said it was too expensive! But it was free to all!

Do we know the privileges and blessings we deserve? Maybe we could all study more and make sure we are taking part of those privileges and blessing in store for us!

We Love you all!


Elder & Sister Despain













Monday, February 24, 2020

Feb 24, 2020 I saw the Lord

Oh my goodness!!   2 full weeks have passed.   Full of Zone conference and interviews.   What a delight it is to meet with these missionaries every transfer!   We love them.   We love their spirit and enthusiasm and energy.   We learn from them.   We even love their struggles, challenges and honesty.

We had 20 new missionaries this transfer.   What a beautiful thing to see new life.   These missionaries are here to teach and the light they bring radiates!   REALLY radiates. 
One of these sweet sisters is from PNG .... thats Papua New Guinea.   Humble.  Grateful.  FULL of light.   She has taught me much already.   No regular mail delivery, no wifi/computer/cell phones or regular communication with family.  Just sweet simple, humble gratitude to be blessed to be on a mission serving.  I learned much from her in the sweet short time we visited together.

I love the focus on the celebration of the restoration of the gospel.   200 years ago God the Father and his son appeared to a young boy who was seeking and pleading for answers.  And just as Heavenly Father promises us he'll answer our prayers, he answered young Joseph.   The simplicity and beauty of that message and revelation that has flowed since then is awe inspiring and humbling.



I have read and studied this account written and given to different audiences, at different ages, and in progressive increased spirituality and wisdom from the Prophet Joseph.  This synopsis is a great resource:
I Saw the Lord: 
Joseph's First Vision Combined from Nine Accounts  by Kerry Muhlestein





God the Father and His Son, did visit this young prophet.  The restoration of Christs church is for us.  It teaches us and gives us knowledge of our divinity.  We will live with them again.  They love us and have provided a plan to help us be our spiritual souls that we yearn to recognize, seek and become.

One of our former missionaries came back to visit with his family.   It is a amazing to see him again.  Our hearts are lifted by the good individuals we associate with.

And these cute sisters in our district came over to make netting necklaces to hold the jade greenstone that is traditional in New Zealand.   We love them and their desire to spend any of their free time with us.   We love their energy and laughter.  What a great day!

Sometime in the past 2 weeks we visited Mclaren Falls, where the release water from a dam several times a year to allow for "recreational activity" and let kayaks head down the river with the extra water level.   The opening and rising of the water was fun and gorgeous.  Just a couple weeks earlier, we watched divers and jumpers jump from rocks into a big pool below.  This picture shows the pool higher up and surrounded by the foliage and beauty of New Zealand.


Just to make the mission more real for you, I got to spend a ladies night out with some other senior women to see a movie and celebrate two birthdays.   The men were more than happy and relieved that we went together and didn't subject them to "Emma".  Their friendship and laughter was a lot of fun.
This week, we're delighted, overjoyed and immersing ourselves in a visit from our daughter and her family.  Such a balm to our souls that yearn for them daily.   They are a delight!   Our Joy is Full.
We will continue to serve, and be grateful for the things we learn and appreciate each day.


Friday, February 7, 2020

Feb 8, 2020 Christ Changes Men

Our sweet new grandson was blessed last Sunday by his father.  This is another major event we have not physically attended.  We love them.  We're grateful to share in part by video and voice.  It does make us keenly aware of the value we have for our family and how we make effort to stay connected.  We're so grateful for our children and their families and their diligent service and righteous living.

Last week, Linda accompanied a missionary home on a flight to the US.  It was a long, uneventful flight, but felt odd being so close to home.  She's also fought some wicked virus ever since.  It's been several years since I've been sick and I'm not good at it. Thank goodness it's not Coronavirus.  There are a lot of people wearing respiratory masks in airports, and the virus is spreading and needs caution.  We remind missionaries the best advice to wash hands regularly with soap and water.  This is still the best prevention of the spread of infection. Here's an interesting link showing the fast spread over the past MONTH:   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2019%E2%80%9320_Wuhan_coronavirus_outbreak

We accompanied a missionary to another surgery immediately upon returning from the Flight back ... this time an overnight stay in a nicer private hospital .... This was an environment I could appreciate.  And there was a this welded man made out of old surgical instruments.   I thought it was pretty good!

We finally had transfers!   Prior to Christmas everything changed at 5 weeks instead of 6, so this last transfer was 7 weeks long and we felt the pain of extra anxiety and issues we had to face with challenged missionaries.   The 20 new missionaries coming to Hamilton are amazing!!   The mission field is being restocked with some good energetic youth!   We're so grateful for their example and desire to teach and preach.   Here's our last district from over the Holiday Season .... We love these missionaries!




 We've seen the influence of those who choose to embrace good and light and apply the teachings of Christ in their lives.   We testify that he lives.  That following his teachings is the only way to complete, whole, and lasting happiness.  There are storms in all of our lives, and more that lie ahead.   Now is the time to prepare and strengthen yourself and find peace that comes through living the gospel.   We love serving and helping and especially finding and feeling peace.

Thursday, January 23, 2020

Jan 24, 2020 Mental Health and Yamashitas


  • “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble, and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them”

I've been alive long enough that I've become aware of more than one personal weakness.  The joy of weakness is that we can learn a new skill and become strong in a new area.  I have a new appreciation for mental illness.   There are many different forms and treated differently.  All of us struggle in some way.  The reality is that there is hope.   We can all work to find peace in our lives.  I'm grateful for the many resources available today.


“Old sailing ships had periods when the wind did not blow. They were ‘dead in the water.’ But the wind will return. The sails will fill. You will come into port.”
Elder Jeffrey Holland

Two of my favorite starting points with helpline links and inspiration: 

Including ways to help and support:
“The world is in need of your help. There are feet to steady, hands to grasp, minds to encourage, hearts to inspire, and souls to save.”
Thomas S. Monson

Stress is real for all of us. Tools to manage and cope are available to everyone.   Some have learned how to use these successfully.   It's amazing how many missionaries struggle with relaxing or sleeping and most of them don't have a clue how to slow down and do focused breathing.
https://www.smilingmind.com.au/smiling-mind-app

We finished a senior Missionary conference this week.   What amazing missionaries our seniors are.  We need each other.   Each come with different talents and strengths.   Some of them are literally sent to the BUSH or wilderness.   Most of them are on their own to fill needs they identify.   I Love the wards we attend.   Many weeks we attend multiple wards.   We love all of them.  

We continue to harvest tomatoes in abundance.  There is more waiting.  It gives us something in hand to deliver to friends.  Thank goodness for good friends and neighbors.   We came home last week and the house alarm started ringing.   The neighbors joined us to verify that all was well.  A contractor had come inside to get a quote to install cool air.   It was installed yesterday and we are alive again!  What joy to feel some cool air when it's hot outside! 
Missionaries stop by regularly and we often provide them with ice cream.  It's a blessing to be with them and hear of their journey.

Wednesday after a doctor appointment and then district council, we dropped off some elders at their flat to find water streaming down the driveway.   They had left their washer running and the hose popped off and sprayed water full force at the ceiling which left pools of water in the detergent, on the shelving unit and running onto the carpet and into the foyer.   What a mess!  Thankfully it was turned off and repairs begun.  Housing Coordinators were called and wet vac purchased, then carpet pulled up and property management notified.   That's one of many missionary Uh-ohs.   So many things to teach and learn.  BUT we have a lifetime.   We keep growing a learning.

Over the next month we're focusing on helping missionaries with knowing the doctrine so they can teach with more confidence.   We love them!   
Two Zone Combo Conference with Elder and Sister Yamashita