Saturday, August 29, 2020

29 Aug 2020 Focused Resolve

We're trying to be intentional for the last few months of our mission.   With focused resolve, we're doing the things "of most worth".  Blogging is not at the top of that list, although our communication with family and friends is cherished!   Please note, there are 2 posts in August ... Barely!

https://www.stats.govt.nz/news/new-zealands-population-reflects-growing-diversity says New Zealand is comprised of 70% European Descent, 16.5% Maori, 15% Asian, 8% Pacific Islanders.   (*Those #'s don't add up!) But what is interesting is to look at pictures of our missionaries.   The #'s are reversed.   The largest percentage of missionaries and many members of the church and many converts are Pacific islanders.  




We went on a day hike to the Arapuni Suspension Bridge where there was a dam with a power plant.  It was one of the few that had been camouflaged with vines and flora to hide it during the war.  Smoke generators also operated to further protect the operation.   It was never damaged and remains operational today. https://www.heritage.org.nz/the-list/details/4168


After interviewing missionaries in Rotorua we managed to escape with President and Sister Erekson on a hike through the Redwood Forest and to the Top of an overlook of Rotorua.  It is a beautiful landscape with lakes, mountains, thermal pools and steam vents and a Maori village below. 


Elder Despain has been fighting a "frozen shoulder" over the past several months and seeing a Physical Therapist who suggested that a golf swing could help rehab it, and gave him some clubs to do it.  That was a great excuse to get out and do something he loves.  

On the drive to the beach we passed by this fence full of old bicycles .... and yes, the landscape is like that everywhere! ... Lush amazing green rolling hills.





We went with Senior Sisters to Kawhia Beach where at low tide Elder Despain dug down til he found the heat and natural hot water pools.  Though many people immerse their entire body in the joy of the hot water, we did a pedicure soak which was delightful.  Some locals came by and showed us how to find the natural pumice stones that were washed ashore and Nik collected several that are just part of the landscape.   We walked miles of this gorgeous beach which is worth returning to!


These cute sisters modeled the masks we made for 150 missionaries!  Thank goodness for good help and volunteers who saved me in what seemed like a great idea!    Hopefully they won't need them regularly.  We're pretty fortunate in NZ, but a second wave of Covid gave us another look into what the rest of the world is facing and we're so grateful to still be able to teach and continue missionary work.

We've had more doctor appointments and medical calls again.   I recognize that english is a second language for many of our missionaries and when they describe a problem that sounds simple, and then I ask for a picture, or insist on looking, it's not a simple as it sounded!   Inspiration comes in many ways, and we can see the hand of the Lord working in technology, in health, and in becoming Master Teachers.   They are an inspiration to us and we're grateful to be among them!   We're working on the next transfers this upcoming week --- Change is part of the ongoing routine that keeps us always thinking ahead.   

Each day we begin with a focus and prayer of gratitude... The time lapse photography and 10 min thought here is stunning:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXDMoiEkyuQ

He has a vision and purpose.  Each of us does too. Open your eyes, and it will be a good day!

 If you were to ask today What did I learn on my mission?   

1.  I learned that you aren’t really that interested in what I have to say, but in how well I hear and listen to you.

2.  We all have different things to learn.   Why are some people so naturally blessed with a joyful outlook, and others have to work at it? 

3.  Our struggles are unique to our individual path.  The Lord knows my needs.  He knows your needs.  We are all headed in the same direction, we just get there by a different path.  Really we’ll meet at the end and instead of forcing people onto our path, lets dance through our winding road full of potholes and know we’ll be together at the end of our path.   I finally see how different trails can lead the same endpoint.  And more important, why those trails are necessary to be different for each of us.   



So use your time wisely.  These thoughts on time may interest you as they did me:   https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/thomas-h-morris/time-a-precious-commodity-a-finite-resource/

We love you, and more importantly, God loves you!   May you feel his peace.

❤❤The Despains




Thursday, August 6, 2020

Aug 5, 2020 Called to Serve!

Called to Serve!   

What beauty there is in that statement!   We love serving the Lord.   We love to see valiant missionaries striving to serve.  Our NZ missionaries come from the Tip of Northland New Zealand to the Furthest Southern point living with Penguins. And we still have islanders unable to return home, and we get to benefit from their bonus service time.  They are a JOY to be around and learn from.   We see so many of them in Medical settings that I prodded this sister to pose with her new companion ....


Our hearts are full of so many unlinked thoughts.
We ache for those who have lost loved ones over the last few weeks and mourn with them!  We pray our tears will help reduce and minimize some of their intense pain.  💛💚💙

We are enjoying watching our children and grandchildren in online gatherings.   The miracle of online video and exchange is ALMOST real.   But, we're still anxious to be more than observers with solely verbal exchanges in their lives.

We spent another fabulous day in Tauranga, where a walk around Mount Maunganui has become a bi-weekly solace to our souls as we watch waves crash against rock taking one more beating and slowly being diminshed.  We see seals turning endlessly in the waves and barely cresting to let us enjoy their reality and peaceful oblivion to our presence.  We watch birds dive and then fly again to locate the perfect catch.  We gather shells, and seek out yet one more new, colorful newly discovered treasure from the sea.  We watch rainbows, seemingly painted across the sky above the mist of the showers that freely flow during this winter season.  We return to our car, winded, but refreshed and grateful, so grateful for Gods creations and the beauty here that we get to share.

Then we return to interviews and answer endless questions.   Linda shared needed thoughts and teachings about washing hands, brushing teeth, ingrown toenails and treating and preventing knee and ankle injuries, getting to doctor and dental appointments on time, and expressing gratitude and thanks for doctors' service.   Nothing magically stopped the injuries or need for treatment.   The phone calls continued and our response is, "Didn't we just talk about this?"   But of course.... they all fully understand the RICE treatment and protocol for sprains and injuries.   They may not have ice on hand as suggested, but most of them have frozen sausages or frozen veggies they resort to using.

Did you know the Ozone layer is thinner in NZ?   Really thin.   I constantly remind missionaries to use extra sunscreen and wear sunglasses.   But maybe the air being thinner means our prayers ascend milliseconds faster to Heaven?  It's a beautiful place and prayers are rendered by people of faith with stories of ancestors and traditions that are inspiring.  We respect the little family Marae and the large community ones that are still in use and sacred to so many Maori families.  

We had fish n chips again!   New Zealand does some things really well that we will miss.  Tip Top Ice cream, REAL fruit ice cream, fish n chips and fresh cream.    

NZ is a beautiful adventure, but also for us is service and pure devotion to our Savior whom we worship.   We've loved reading and studying and learning of him more fully.  There are so many sources that we use for study.   The church keeps adding to their vast library of videos, teachings, talks and speeches.   Even the missionary library is increasing in resources.  We can't keep up with the ongoing added items in the video library.

I'm still listening to the collected talks of Neal A. Maxwell that cause reflection and awe at what was clearly and succinctly stated, warned and prophesied of our day 20 years ago.   

One of the wards we attend has had a month of speakers who took the self reliance courses.   How inspirational for even people who didn't think they needed direction and help. 

Another woman has created links to current Come Follow me Study .... I wish I could read and watch EVERYthing on her list.   https://www.agospelcenteredhome.com/

Meanwhile, we keep up with weekly missionary devotionals now online since the MTC is online training, and we listen to past inspirational talks. books and firesides.   We listen to books and scriptures while driving at fast speed to get through more information and still have so much more to learn.
We're blessed to be surrounded by talented and knowledgeable individuals.  

We share a monthly fireside and meal with some other senior missionaries where someone shares thoughts and teachings.   Sweet Sister Rangi Parker was a NZ performer who at 85 years old,  now works full time in the Church History Museum with her husband where they worked diligently to collect stories, videos, artifacts and collections from early Church labor missionaries and families.... This is a building where we spend a lot of our time....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YM8Kfw-FAu0

Last week we were inspired by the story of the Contractor who is doing the renovation for the Hamilton NZ temple and who built the temple in Congo.  That is a miracle temple!    https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/article/kinshasa-democratic-republic-of-the-congo-temple


So we continue our service through the end of this year with humble and thankful hearts that we were Called to Serve!

Elder and Sister Despain